by Ross on February 10, 2010
So many relationships get stuck in a cycle of bickering, impatience and intolerance. It is such an easy place to get stuck because these minor arguments and complaints give us a low level benefit. We do actually get something out of them – we get to feel sorry for ourselves.
I have to say, ‘feeling sorry for myself’ is my most disliked emotion. I really do think it is a lazy emotion and to be honest, quite abhorrent. It is such an easy trap to fall into and it is just so damaging to relationships.
But let’s face it, it is also very common. In all manner of relationships (not just with our intimate partner) we subconsciously create rules that we instinctively live by that mean when our partner does something or behaves a certain way then it means x, y or z.
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by Ross on September 17, 2009

The Energise for Life Collection of Essential Life Tools
Maximise Your Life & Accelerate Your Goals
This is the ultimate collection of life tools, brought to you by Energise for Life. This is my (Ross) personal collection, based upon my experience, contacts, ideas, inspirations and learnings over the past 10 years. It will be added to and will continue to grow as I learn more and more.
This list is a collection of anything and everything that has benefitted my life and I feel will benefit yours. Tony Robbins talks a lot about modelling the best people in each specific area of development to supercharge and speed your achievement and this could be an awesome starting place for you.
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