by Ross on February 10, 2010
So many relationships get stuck in a cycle of bickering, impatience and intolerance. It is such an easy place to get stuck because these minor arguments and complaints give us a low level benefit. We do actually get something out of them – we get to feel sorry for ourselves.
I have to say, ‘feeling sorry for myself’ is my most disliked emotion. I really do think it is a lazy emotion and to be honest, quite abhorrent. It is such an easy trap to fall into and it is just so damaging to relationships.
But let’s face it, it is also very common. In all manner of relationships (not just with our intimate partner) we subconsciously create rules that we instinctively live by that mean when our partner does something or behaves a certain way then it means x, y or z.
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by Ross on September 16, 2008
Or at least, that’s the way it looks.
I know we’ve been hearing it from the event organisers for YEARS, but this time I think it really is true. Usually it is announced by the organisers at each UPW and I’ve always taken it as a bit of a sales pitch for the next event (oh, so the next one is the last one is it? Better get me some tickets then).
But having worked with the guys that promote UPW in Europe for a couple of years I am absolutely certain that this is the real deal. The promoters in Australia are also saying the same over there and I had never known them to cry wolf on this before…
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